Consider adopting from a domestic agency

Domestic adoption agencies in the United States work with birth mothers to find adoptive parents. Prospective adoptive parents submit details about themselves to the agencies, who then pass the information to the birth mothers. If a birth mother is interested, the agency facilitates the adoption process.

When it comes to adopting from a domestic agency, open adoptions are the most popular route. This means that prospective parents meet and form a relationship with the birth mother (and sometimes the birth father), and often keep in touch after the baby is born. Many families feel that this open process takes the mystery out of adoption and makes it feel more natural for all parties involved.

Some agencies still conduct closed adoptions. In this type of adoption, the adoptive parents have no contact with the birth mother, and the baby has no contact with the birth mother after he or she is born. Because closed adoptions are less popular than they used to be, it can be difficult to find an agency and birth mother willing to facilitate one.

Adopting independently can give the adoptive parents greater control over the search process, rather than leaving it up to the agency to facilitate a match. The process of adopting independently is often faster than going through an agency.

The downside of adopting independently is that it is common for birth mothers to change their minds late in the process. Agencies have a process in place to eliminate this as a risk factor; if you're working independently, make sure your lawyer is highly experienced with adoptions to minimize the chance that this will happen.

Conducting your own search for a birth mother is not legal in every state. Make sure finding your own birth mother is legal where you live before pursuing this as an option.

Adoption Fees & Expenses

  • Home study fees. Prospective adoptive parents must pay for a home study in which representatives of an agency or the state come to the home to get a sense of how suitable the environment will be for a child.
  • Counseling fees. People adopting through an agency pay for their own counseling, as well as counseling for the birth mother.
  • The birth mother's medical expenses. In many cases adoptive parents pay the birth mother's expenses during her pregnancy. Sometimes they also pay for her room and board, travel, and other expenses
  • The child's medical expenses. People adopting a child from another country may start paying the child's medical expenses before they even meet the child in person for the first time.
  • Lawyer fees. People pursing independent adoptions can expect to pay a lawyer for helping them navigate the process. Almost all adoptive parents will hire a lawyer to finish the adoption process.
  • Travel expenses. Parents who are adopting a child from another state or country are responsible for paying for their own travel, hotel and meal expenses.
  • Expenses are often reimbursed for those adopting a child from the foster care system. Adopting a child from the state is the least expensive adoption process. In many cases the parents actually get a tax exemption that goes beyond the travel expenses and court fees required for every adoption. Adopting a child with special needs may make you eligible for an adoption subsidy

International adoptions may be closed or open, depending on the country. Make sure you're aware of the birth mother's expectations and ties you'll have to the country after the adoption is complete.

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